“The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably
Make With Women—
And What To Do About It...”
Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With Women—And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of These Deadly Common Mistakes...
-By David DeAngelo, Author Of “Double Your Dating”
Ø MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A “Nice Guy”
o “Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. And guess what? Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.”
o D’oh! (Gam Dou Tak – Like that also can?)
Ø MISTAKE #2: Trying To “Convince Her To Like You"
o “What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they REALLY like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION!”
o “Never, ever, EVER. You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently about you with "logic and reasoning". Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that FEELING by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind. Bad idea. One that will never work.”
o Not again! Then?
Ø MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or Permission
o Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men who kiss up to them... EVER. Don't get me wrong here. You don't have to treat women BADLY for them to like you. But if you think that treating a woman well means "always getting her approval and permission for things", think again. You will never succeed by looking for approval. Women actually get ANNOYED at men who seek their approval. Doubt me? Just ask any attractive woman if Wussy guys who chase her around and want her approval annoy her...
o Often are the times when I thought you would please her by actually ask her. But, this one says no~
Ø MISTAKE #4: Trying To “Buy” Her Affection With Food And Gifts
o When you do these things, you send a clear message:
o "I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection".
o Your good intentions usually come across to women as over-compensation for insecurity, and weak attempts at manipulation. That's right, I said that women see this as MANIPULATION.
o Another NO! NO?! Wah~ Not easy~ *Shaking head*
Ø MISTAKE #5: Sharing “How You Feel” Too Early In The Relationship With Her
o Most men don't realize this, but attractive women are being approached in one way or another ALL THE TIME. An attractive woman is often approached several times a DAY by men who are interested. This translates into dozens of times per week, and often HUNDREDS of times per month. And guess what? Attractive women have usually dated a LOT of men.
o That's right. They have EXPERIENCE. They know what to expect. And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. This signals to the woman that you're just like all the other guys who fall for her too fast... and can't control themselves.
o Noob me~ makes me feel lagi NOOB O.O
Ø MISTAKE #6: Not “Getting” How Attraction Works For Women
o Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Think about it. Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men... and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone.
o Somehow, I do agree to this *nodding vigorously* (What? Cannot meh?!)
Ø MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks
o One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started... because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money... or guys who are a certain height... or guys who are a certain age. And sure, there are some women who are only interested in these things. But MOST women are far more interested in a man's personality than his wallet or his looks. There are personality traits that attract women like a magnet...
o This one I know.. hehehe.. heard from seniors la~ :P
Ø MISTAKE #8: Giving Away All Of Your Power To Women
o Women are NEVER attracted to men that they can walk all over... Women aren't attracted to Wussies!
o Wookay~ I’ll make sure I WON’T BE a Wussy~ @.@
Ø MISTAKE #9: Not Knowing EXACTLY What To Do In Each Type Of Situation With Women
o A woman ALWAYS knows what you're thinking. Women are approximately TEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. That's ten TIMES.
o Did u READ THAT!? TEN TIMES! My gosh~ I feel I can’t hide anything already… with my vigorous body language~
Ø MISTAKE #10: Not Getting HELP
o …
So, how are you guys doing out there? All I can say is I’m 自身难保 。。。
7 comments:
hahha...sounds quite correct, though i am not attractive, but i think most girls thinks this way....haha...keep it up
mistake 1 is my biggest mistake... i changed n now look at me! oh yeah! XD
There are no hard and fast rules la.... just do what you think is right lo....
But, if your dream girl thinks the way I do, yeah, stuff like whether you are her type, the first impression... are kinda important, but the most important factor is how you are to her.
If you can give her care, kindness, 'prihatin-ness' (can't think of the English word right now haha.. kinda blur now), RESPECT, you should be on the right track... err that's all I can think of now... Will let you know if I think of anything else.. hehe...
again not 100% fail safe. Haha. Every girl is different...=D
Garry, if you believe that statement. I got nothing to say. Just that, you'll never succeed.
Reason: Simple, it's advices from the world. Not what you normally seek help from right?
Solution: Continue to ask the Lord the timing for it la. When the time comes, you'll automatically get the girl. She might like you not because you did all the 10 things correctly. Maybe you did all 10 mistakes, but she like those mistakes. Right or not?
The studies are done scientifically, no doubt it's quite true, but then again, guidelines more important or love more important?
Think think think think think think think think think think
wow....victor da lee too much think le kua...hahha...keep thinking if u think thinking can help
hey garry!.. i had fun reading it..Ü it was pretty enjoyableÜ
Thanks! Everyone! Thanks for the advise~
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