LOVE is...

It's been a while since i last post something without pics.. well, anyways... i got this interesting email and thought rather to pollute your mail box.. my as well post in it my blog... and then u can access it... It's really meaningful... some philosophical idea about life... hope u enjoy reading...


To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE
給我單身朋友們
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠，卻越要逃避。
if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
如果就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最 不注意時飛向你。
make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it
愛使人快樂，卻常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正值得付出的人時，是最珍貴的。
to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.
所以，花點時間去選擇最好的他 /她吧

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To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE
給我那不是單身的朋友們
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about
愛不能使他 /她成為一個 '完美的人 '
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它卻可以使你找到一個幫你成長的他 /她

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To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
給我玩世不恭的朋友們
Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they
如果你不在乎，不要說 '我愛你 '。如果他們不在時 ，不要討論自已的感受
aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
不要涉足會使他人心碎的生活。
in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
說謊時，不要看著眼睛。
to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works
最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他，卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然 …
both ways...

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To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
給我已婚的朋友們
Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you',
不要老是說 '這是你的錯 '，何不說說 '對不起 '。
but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I
不要老是問 '你去哪裡了 '，何不說說 '我就在這兒等著你 '。
不要老是問 '你怎麼會這麼作？ '，何不說說 '我了解你 '。
wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
不要老是說 '我希望你這麼做 '，何不說說 '我感謝你的一切

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To My Friends Who Are............ENGAGED
給我那已訂婚的朋友們
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how
要真正衡量包容心，不是看在一起幾年了，而是要看彼此的敬愛
good you are for each other.

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To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN
給我心碎的朋友們
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to
心碎的時間和傷害的深度，完全取決於你自已。
go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
難的是，如何從中學習，而不是從傷痛中爬起。

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To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
給我所有天真的朋友們
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too
要如何戀愛？ --就愛吧。不要欲言又止；要互相協調，不要太固執；
persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and tr y not to demand,
要分享，且千萬不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain.
受傷後不要再記恨。

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To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE
給我積極的朋友們
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
看到你所愛的他 /她和其他人很快樂使你心碎
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
但知道你所愛的他 /她是和你在一起不快樂，令人更加的傷心。

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To My Friends Who Are.............AFRAID TO CONFESS
給我害怕去承認的朋友們
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when
當你和他 /她分手時，愛受到傷害
someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you
當他 /她和你分手時，更是傷痛
love has no idea how you feel.
但傷害最深的是你所愛的他 /她完全無法了解你的感受

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To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON
給我那還在等待的朋友們
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to
人生最傷心的事，是你和他 /她愛情長跑了多年，最後的結局卻不如所望。
find out in the end that it was never me ant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not
' 如果他/ 她現在讓你覺得不值得付出，那麼一年，甚至十年後，都不會值得付出的。
going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
讓他 /她走吧

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TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
給我所有的朋友們
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,
我竭誠祝福你們愛著一個誠實、強壯、成熟、衷心、有衝勁、保護你、積極、值得付出和無私的他 /她。
never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

For Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. . .And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love. - excerpts from 1 Corinthians 13:4-13

Kite Flying

Sunshine... after weeks of moody n cloudy weather... Well, it was then when we finally made it to fly the kites.. so a bunch of friends whom had nothing much better to do went kite flying...

Nevertheless, as usual... Kite flying usually end up losing the kite... Ghi Waie lost his nice and 'gay' kite... hahaha... Poor thing... Well, as Valentines approaches, kite flying reminds me of a life philosophy where in a relationship...

Both parties needs to know when to let go and pull tight... if pulled or released mistakenly, the kite might fly away... or land... or... even get caught amongst the trees... i have to clarify.. i'm no relationship expert here... but... its just a sort of reflection thingy...

Anyways... here are some photos... hope u enjoy them...

















And finally the sun sets... becoz Ghi waie kissed it... and it hid itself for the day... kekeke... just joking...

CNY 2009 Koinonia

No matter where i go, it seems fellowship is happening all around me... Recently, i partake in the CNY 2009 Cell Group celebration at my parents cell group... It was a full of nourishment one... be it physically or spiritually... The theme was SEAFOOD!!! Geez... wat a meal it was... and after the meal, we had Bible quizes and Sharing of testimony... In addition, it was a Combined Cell Group!

*Just in case some of u don't understand wat Koinonia mean... it is actually a greek word for common, public, sharing... Originally read as Koinos... When used as Koinonia.. meaning Fellowship.. i actually prefer to use laymen term for my blog.. but i suppose using a 'kewl' word for the tile might attract ppl to read... :P

That night... we Fellowship, Worship, Discipleship, Ministry & Evangelise...

Anyways... took some photos... hope u enjoy them...











Till then...

* I now realize it's not easy to be a journalist... and a photographer... especially when u are busy and u need to process the photo and then write up and post it up within the time frame... before the deadline... : P nevertheless, it is an enjoyable one... hope u all are enjoying it... God Bless!!!

CNY 2009 Part 2

hey hey hey... i'm back... kekeke... Well, it's been raining and raining AND..... Raining... saying goes that when your beloved ones leave... and if it rains, it means, that person is your sunshine... (actually i made it up... Kekeke... Gotcha!!!) And so, good times flies... truly... It was like Year 2008 was just next door... and we just stepped into 2009... BUT as a matter of fact... a month has passed since New Year... Chinese New year too has come and gone...






Same goes to me friends who came back... left and came back.. AND... left... the 3 cute and pretty ones... Anyways.. We had fun...

More Fun...



And More more fun...


And More more more fun...



AND then... it was time...





They flew off... Boo... Like a box of chocolate... once finished, uve got no choice but to savor the good memories.. and if u're lucky, u MIGHT find back the same flavor... but the next time you take it.. it may not be the same as the 1st time when u have it...




AND then, i had to stay home and no one else to shoot but to shoot on some still objects...

Here u go...


FU= Prosperity, Lu= Generational Bliss, Shou= longevity... The three deity is often placed at home by the chinese... Legend goes that by possessing the three, one is the most happy person on earth... But how true is that? To me... The truth shall set us free... The way, the truth and life shall prevail...


The Buddhist believe that Matreiya is the coming buddha... he will be the one whom will replace Amitabha Buddha to preach in the next world... but as Matreiya origins from India... Matreiya evolved to be a Fat one when it reached China as the chinese believes fat symbolizes prosperity... and fat at one point in the history of China regarded as beauty...



This Eagle Wine Jar is a Solid jar made of bronze...


This Wine Jar was brough out of China by my Grandpapa... it is made of pure lead... superlight...

DA BAI NIAN

The year of OX sure has been a hectic ones... hectically eating, bai nian, fellowship, which in turn, turned into 'fei low ship' (getting fat)... well... i got the opportunity to meet up with some reli OLD friends... especially the ones from high school... gee... life's reli like a box of chocolate... life ater form 5 has reli change everyone... some nerdy nerdy people are reli looking alive nowadays.. and some whom used to look like a swan are becoming like crows... anyways... human change... be it exterior or interior...

And when people grow up, of course people start to get curious at each others marital status... and some checking on availability... While some found love... some lost it.. and some really indulging in it...









Well no matter wat... it still seems friendship is most reliable.. a ship tat seems to be too good to be on board... Nevertheless, even Titanic which claims to be unsinkable sank... Well, i guess nothing last forever... and good times flies... hope you'll appreciate it while u can..



Here are some more photos for you to savor and help u imagine...

The bunch of Form 5 mates... not all were there of course...

AND Last but not least... the cutest phone chains i have ever seen!!! SUPER CUTE...