In this season of busyness, I have noticed many happenings surrounding me. The struts and frets of life have numbed me. Especially at this crucial moment of exam somber. Through these crucial moments, I have noticed some people surrounded by the scent of love in the air. Some stinking stench of hatred whiles some others, troubled by the unknown aura in the air. Still pondering and mulling over the circumstances they face.
I myself for one am trying to sort out my own affair. Running out of breath, love seems something at a distant shore. A relationship is nowhere to be seen at all. Admiring someone is of course still familiar. Favoring being favoring doesn’t bring any difference compared to admiring an actress on movie~
With that, this lights up the issue of having, being and with. With the Chinese proverbs resounding my mind, (有也烦，没有也烦) apparently, meaning… having and without both causes stress. It is particularly true I suppose. By having a relationship, it causes one to stress. Sometimes it can be very rewarding, but it does come with a price.
As for those who don’t have, are probably free and independent. However, without another counterpart sharing the journey of life. Human being human, are afraid of loneliness. Somehow? Some may say, friends and family. However, don’t family and friends have their limit. Some part of life, they just can’t fulfill their role in it?
A lot of the time, people tend to say, ‘you will have one when you are ready’ or ‘if it’s yours, it will be yours’. But yet again, when is it time? How do you know if you are ready if you never take the step further? And also… If it is yours, and you don’t take any effort in it, will it still be yours?
4 comments:
you'll never know when the time is the time. Only God knows. You'll get to know it when God allows you to know it.
Pray and ask. Remember, God might say yes, God might say no, and God might say WAIT.
So, Pray and see how does the Lord lead you lo...
it might not be the right time, u might not be the right one, but the effort must be there... then u noe u've tried... then theres no regrets...
well, i believe many people had gone thru this kind of situation as you're facing now. Waiting yet don't know whether worth waiting or not. Approaching yet don't know will it success or not.
In my own experience, (it might not suitable for you)if you're still not sure whether is the right time or not, or maybe whether is the right one or not, only one thing needed, or maybe probably 2, pray and develop strong friendship before it goes to another stage of the relationship. If she is the one, thing will seem goes so naturally that even you won't believe it yourself. Haha. Like me.. :)
Be rest assure that God will guide you. Because God cares.. :) Peace
Take this from a man who's walked where you are walking;
There is a time. And that time will come when you understand this:
That your love for your partner must be sacrificial. That you are prepared to say, "I can't give my life for you now, but i WILL grow as we walk together through life's journey."
SaD.jc
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